I just wrote and erased five paragraphs about my experience with this issue of allies who have issues - which tells me you've struck a good nerve with your writing! My experience, in a nutshell, is that well-meaning humans often have to learn how to love the people they care about.

As always, thanks for sharing your perspective and experience! I love reading your stories!

Andy’s book, “Tried to be Straight: Biblical Options for Gay Christians” comes out in 2021. Find out more at www.triedtobestraight.com.